Most of the time that I have found confusion and chaos in my life, it was by people who sought to bring me down to a manageable size so that they can continue on with their lives. And, live their lives while I lick my wounds like a child or indulge myself in fantasy….casting my eyes away from what’s going on in my life.
The ironic thing is most people cant see how damaging that really is. Everyone wants you to work and do all of these important things. They want you to be a man everywhere else but at home. But, if something bad comes your way; your a kid all over again. Even if you are punished like a man. And, its hard to have that duality. When your a teen its easy to act grown and then hide from your parents. But, when you get older, who wants to be a kid again and being an adult is not exactly fun.
The hardest thing is to not get caught up in the madness. Everything is throwing a punch at you. Everyone is looking for that reaction. And, when they get it, they give you something else to be mad about. So it is important to stay at peace and let people act a fool if they want to. They way it was always told to me is that it takes two people to fight. If you don’t fight then you either getting beat or that person is fighting with themselves.
Secondly, its important to remember to just keep on going about your life. The minute you give in to madness then madness always knows how to get you. And, at this point in my life. I just can’t deal with it. I’ve got to walk away from it! Simply because nothing good is going to come from it. You can treat people nicely but sometimes people will take your kindness for weakness or trickery. Life is hard enough!
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